I say burn the bullies! (Bullying in Schools)

Name: winsy

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Product:	Bullying in Schools
Date:	22/09/04 (78 review reads)
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Advantages: There are no advantages to bullying

Disadvantages: Everything

Bullies have always been a serious pet hate of mine, i hate to see people get bullied in anyway shape or form, as i was bullied through out my school life. From aroudn the age of maybe 5 - 6 i was bullied about the physical deformation of my right hand, you see my little finger, middle finger, ring finger and thumb are all deformed in there own way. I was called names like, mong hand, fish fingers you know the score. In my primary school years it was always own main offender, he knows who he his and he knows he was in the wrong atfer many a strong lesson from me. I was always taught by my mam of all people to stick up for myself and not let anyone get me down about it, Im a special example of just how delcate life can be and how nothing perfect which I respect and am very proud of.

When i was first bullied by this main offender i didn't know what to do, Id never really been bullied, no one had ever really said anything to me, i knew who my friends were and who weren't and this guy wasn't a friend at all. I first resorted to getting my bigger brother who was in the same school and like 3 years older than me, he didn't actually hit him, he just pushed him and had a good talking to him, whilst i was enraged at what had happened and what he said to me, burning up in a little rage in my own world, i proceeded to run at him and give him the biggest kicking in the world, it was like I was at wembley taking a penalty for Engalnd and his head was the ball. Ever since then ive had if you like a monster inside me that explodes as soon as anyone makes the smallest direct out of order comment towards my hand. And the same bully was never content with me showing him who can still use there physical deformed hand to show bullies who's boss, i must have had 6 - 8 fights with the same boy through out primary school, every time showing him who's not to be messed with, and explaining to the teacher well he called me about my hand and sorry but i have eben raised to believe that i shouldn't take crap from idiots like him and sure enough the headteahcer of my primary school would respect that and i wouldn't even get told of, get suspended, you know i was a good kid, always did my work, was intelligent, the teacher knew i wasn't a bully i had loads of friends.

Even at secondary school when alot of people respected me and knew i wasn't a push over, more silly people seemed to want to take the micheal out of me. One lad namely who i was usually alright with, he made a snidey comment that at least he doesn't wear gloves when its not winter, meaning that i would wear gloves in the summer to cover my hands, you knwo even though I never used to wear gloves, fare game I would hide my hand but hey, thats me thats my choice. Low and behold that lad got a lesson taught and has never ever stepped out of line with me since.

There has been many a tiem when someone has picked n me about my problems and its just not fair. I have never once called any one a nasty name out of disrespect, Im an honest, sincere fair person, who knows what bullying and name calling can do. It made my life hell sometime but now when i look back i just have to thank someone up there for giving me the strength and confidence to stand up for myself and that ability to build up what becomes a massive adrenaline rush. That may sound strange but the bullying and and the fighting I have been invloved in has somewhat allowed me to channel all my hate into a furious reaction when I have been bullied and or name called.

I have even been somewhat bullied at work, not directly, but somewhat to a certain extent, discriminated against as I would put it. See my life not a beach its a b**ch review. I didn't resort to violence then as i do not condone violence at all, i dont' like it, i get shakey and totally nervous after a fight, like i said i get a mega adrenaline rush thats like all the rage ive ever felt coming out at once and once ive released it all and even before it comes out im shakey as hell and extremly quiet. It scares me, but i thank someone for giving me a gift of being quite a strong minded and able bodied individual.

My advice to any body who had been bullied is if you aren't able to stick up for yourself, do tell someone, whether its a teacher, a parent, a friend, anyone just tell them ,let somebody know if you can;t deal with it yourslef you've got to tell someone.

Just remember to, people who bully are sick individuals who need there head looking, they need to grow up and respect people for how special they really are and not just that they are somebody to be picked on. Chances are most bullies have had a hard live or had something happened that gave them a kick out fo picking on people, but in the long run who lieks a bully, seriously just remember to respect yourself for your morale standing, think that your the nice guy in all of this, don't let them win, they only want to to be hurt and or embarrased and you can't let them have that.

If you a bully or you ever had bullied anyone, go to hell! Call me strict but you won't get a pinch of respect from me, you'd be lucky to get one seperate finger a few expletives and them maybe entire fist. I do not condone physical violence, plx if you are being bullied do not think that violence is the only way, we on't want it and we don't need it, talk to somebody first.

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