i judge ! (Do You Judge on First Appearance?)

Member Name: clareandtribe

Product:	Do You Judge on First Appearance?
Date:	10/11/08 (38 review reads)
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i have lost count of the number of times i have chosen to stand on the bus rather than sit next to a certain person because of the way they look....... does that make me a bad person?

I HOLD MY HANDS UP, I DO JUDGE ON FIRST APPEARANCES!!!
and if truth be told i think most people do.

if the only spare seat on the bus is next to some young skinhead bloke, reeking of booze with piercings all over his face, a black eye, scars and teeth missing with a spiders web tattooed on his neck are you really going tothink 'oh what a nice man il go and sit with him'? or are you going to pretend you didnt see the seat and stand at the front?

unfortunately i think the majority of people would preffer to stand, although he may be the nicest person you could ever wish to meet.

so yes i think most people judge on first appearances, but giving people a chance is the most important thing. and not to inflict your opinion onto others, everyone should make their own minds up about another person.

some of my closest friends are people who at first i thought hmmm im not sure of them, but put into a position where i had to be polite and chat to them i actually found them to be lovely and i am so glad to have them in my life

Summary: it doesnt make me a bad person