No please dont. (Domestic Violence)

Member Name: emma150

Product:	Domestic Violence
Date:	06/05/04 (60 review reads)
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Advantages: None.

Disadvantages: Damages children., Fear., Death.

No stop it its my fault im sorry its my fault he hits me I wind him up heard this before well I have. My sister was in a very violent relationship for seven years . At first everything between her and her boyfriend was great until he started cheating and taking drugs which made him violent . No excuse at all he beat her while she was heavily pregnant with his second son threatened to kick the baby out of her and smashed a glass photo frame over her back and the glass stuck in her back my nephew who was only one saw everything.

He came from a disfunctional family but this does not excuse what he did to her no man has the right to hit a women . She was beaten by him on a regular basis for silly little things and he always had an excuse the best been he suffered blackouts . She thought it was her fault shes not stupid just naive she thought he would change he knocked all her confidence out of her and she stayed because she was scared to leave for fear of what he would do to her or perhaps the kids.She had nobody to turn too.

She went to our mums after a practically violent beating she was covered in bruises on her arms and legs nobody was meant to see . Slowley the story emerged he had gone for her in front of the kids knocking my nine month old nephew out of his high chair and his friends just stood by.He then tried to strangle her and slit her throat his friends finally pulled him off but nobody called the police.

She stayed with our mum and we went down to collect her belongings from her house and there he was stood on the street corner waiting for her.So we phoned the police who came to protect us we only got a few things as him and his friends had been stealing her stuff.She had finally broken free.She was still scared and today she is still scared and who can blame her? People say why do you stay unless you have been in that postion you cannot pass judgement.She learned but she learnt the hard way she has to live with the knowledge her
children are messed up because she stayed with him.

Why should she be punished he hit her but he got away with it she did try pressing charges but he threatened her so she dropped them.He still has access to his children but why does he still have that right when he hit her whos to say he wont hurt the kids?All men who hit women have an excuse well why should we take this lets make a stand lets say no lets stop this.If you know of anybody suffering from domestic violence please try to help them dont pretend its not happening.

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