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How to Discipline Children |
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17/03/02 (45 review reads) |
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I bet it must be so frustrating to find ways to discipline your children these days huh? I personally have no children,but have to put up with other peoples children daily. I have kids pee`ing in my garden,smoking whatever they smoke,and even had 2 young kids ages just in teens if they were lucky having sex in my shed!!!They just say p**s off you cant hurt us.And they are right. I went and asked them to get out,and the profanities were unrepeatable.I mean how dare i its only my house!! Kids also know you cant do anything to them,and they even take their parents to court if they chastise them.. My never ending amazement is..that people still have kids,i see parents who are terrified of their own children!!its a world gone mad. I dont have any answers im afraid,just am in awe of parents who soldier on through all of this. Surely if we read our papers we can see what lack of discipline does?.The anti-socials orders imposed on kids when they are called tearaways,and some are. But whose fault is it?yours? the governments?heck i dont know myself. But im sure we werent this bad as kids.True we got a smack if we did wrong and some of us learned from this,.Some did not. What is more worrying is if we dont take control and stop kids terrifying their parents or old folk on our estates,whats it going to be like when theses kids have kids of their own??If they have no discipline how can we expect them to raise kids any better?we cant can we?. Why isnt some kind of book given to parents when they have kids to help them?maybe if we had parent-craft classes we may be better prepared to raise the nations future generations. I have only admiration for you parents and wonder at your staying power.I made a choice not to have children,mainly because i was abused and it was a tough decision but the cycle had to be stopped and the abuse was so bad, i made the decision to not have kids..I do l
ove them though.im just not sure how to act round them because of the way society has gone,i dont want to get accused of anything so i stay clear of teens . I do however teach children in music and they are great, but its because they enjoy what they do. But ive been accosted by kids and robbed also.but i dont blame kids,i think we are too pc these days and are scared to chastise.i may be wrong,i struggle everyday to get by gangs of kids in the street. Whos raising the kids?the government surely cant tell you how to raise them.or if so where are they when you need help?.beats me!!!.
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sidneygee - 06/06/02 Good rant. Definitely the responsibility of parents, many of whom lack commitment to bringing their children up properly. Discipline IS essential, with the threat of a smack as the ultimate deterrent. We used cash - fines as our main deterrent (see my review) and that with loads of love and time given to them worked with our three. We are still giving them our support even though they are in their 20's (son sitting university exams atm). |
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