THE WAY OF DICIPLINE ! ! ! ! (How to Discipline Children)

Name: LouiseHall330

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Product:	How to Discipline Children
Date:	14/08/02 (288 review reads)
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As a child I was never punished by hitting, apart from the occasional tap on the leg. I have never been hit round the face by my mum or dad or had any weapon used on me. It wasn’t my parents being soft either, it was the fact they taught me the rules of life good and bad from day one.
Yes I did miss-behave, who didn’t? but I was sent to my room, banned from watching T.V or not allowed certain treats. I think that these have far better impact on Childs behaviour then hitting them.
If you hit a child all they do is learn to fear you and what about when they are a teenager, I know I was taller then my mum and if my mum hit me I could have hit her back. Also hitting is not a good way to bond with your child and the child wont warm to you as much.
Nowadays taking away a mobile phone would bother a kid a lot and not get them to ever hate you properly, where as years of hitting could. I was told that if I didn’t eat all my tea up I wouldn’t have any pudding and that some people don’t have food, when I was little. Now I finish my meal every time I eat as I was told that calmly when I was younger.
I didn’t rebel that much when I was a kid either because my parents weren’t too strict so a child will be more at ease and not need to rebel as they don’t have much to rebel about.
When I was younger I found being shouted at by my mum was enough to make me sorry for what I have done. I think if a child hits their parent then instead of hitting them back the parent should act hurt and perhaps turn away from the child. The child will then worry that they have upset the parent and learn from the mistake.

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