so many questions and no answers (Life after Death)

Member Name: barbie84

Product:	Life after Death
Date:	18/12/08 (90 review reads)
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I am not realy sure what i should and shouldnt say here but as it is a general discussion i will be honest and apologise in advance if i offend any one.

Death isnt something that frightens me, weather it be tomorrow or 80 years down the line i am not scared by the prospect of it, the only certainty in our lives from the day we are born is the fact that we will eventually die some day and i just hope that my death is quick and pain free when ever it comes.

I am not a believer in god and have no religious back ground so dont realy believe that when we die we go to heaven or hell, good job realy as i must have sold my sole to the devill a long time ago. I have lost a few people in my life and never thought any more of it, when my nan died we had her cremated and her ashes put in a plot, my family think i am cruel as i never take flowers but to me there is no point, i have no regrets i was there for her when she was alive and saw her dying days through with her, i dont believe she went on to heaven and is looking over me so she will never know that the flowers are there, When a friend of mines baby died at just 8 weeks old the thought of him just being buried into the ground and that being it was the worst thought ever for me and got me thinking, i hope there is something after death as i would hate to feel that he only had 8 short weeks on this earth, the vicar at the church said he was guaranteed his place in heaven but if i dont believe in haven then where has he gone?.

This got me to thinking about reincarnation, i like the thought of that as for many life is too short, the thought of being born again appeals to me a lot although with the way this world is deteriating i am not sure that i want to come back as a human being.

After saying all of that the thing that confuses me the most is ghosts, i have experienced this my self but dont fully understand it, if there is a heaven, if we are reincarnated then why do we have spirits still roaming around?

This is a subject that confuses me a lot and no one can actually answer as by the time we know the answers we will be gone but what ever my faite it will happen one day.

Summary: im very confused about this