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Marriage - Is it outdated? |
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16/04/09 (78 review reads) |
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Advantages: The knowledge, for one thing, that marriage is His desire.
Disadvantages: Because this is of Him, there should not be any
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Hi there, it is me again . . . Mayan820
I must admit, this discussion sub category on the dooyoo website is my favourite. The subjects you do not find here, are almost not worth considering. Today I will endeavour to write a review on . . . an aspect of marriage, in general.
Well, in modern western societies it is pretty clear that, by far, the majority of people view marriage as a completely outdated practice. One does not have to look at the results of surveys that has been/are being conducted on this subject, at all, to come to the above conclusion. We can just look around us to see the reality of the situation . . .
Marriage is, of course, the Almighty's way. There can be no doubts about it. The Messiah, Yahushua/Jesus, Himself (who is completely one with the Father - John 10:30 refer), spoke the following words, with regard to marriage, in Matthew 19:5, when He said . . . "For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." I almost want to say . . . "Elohim (G-d) and marriage goes together like a horse and carriage."
Perhaps the following is as logical for you as it is for me . . . as long as His people love Him (and He says . . . those who truly love Me, will keep my commandments), they will also hold this institution of His, sacred. It is as his people move away from Him and what He desires from them, that they will also move further and further away from everything He instituted. This is really the bottom line, full stop.
Hundreds of people, who can not care less about Elohim and His ways, are getting married in our world, every single day. This much, at least, makes sense to me, i.e. . . . these couples are certainly NOT getting married because they desire to obey one of Elohim's commandments. It has to be for some other reason . . . Perhaps they do it for the sake of tradition, to pacify their parents or the local minister, because their best friends did it or perhaps because society, somehow, expects it.
The following, however, makes perfect sense to me . . . for those who do love Him and live for Him, there is no other way but marriage, and never will be.
My conclusion - the institution of marriage has become increasingly more unpopular, over time, as Elohim, His ways and His Word (the Holy Scriptures) has become less and less important to people.
Summary: As our Creator, He knows best what works for us and what not . . .
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- 18/06/09 Great insightful review - although I have different views to you - I don't think marriage is something that any God would feel is necessary - this is a cultural union created by man. However, it can have it's benefits and I wouldn't say it's outdated. Many couples live together in long term relationships which is very similar to marriage. I think we need to be careful about promoting marriage as a religious or Godly notion - many people have remained trapped in unhappy or abusive relationships as a result of this. People will get married if they feel it is right. x |
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- 12/05/09 "Here's a paradox for you . . . not a few people, who can not care less about Elohim and His ways, are getting married in our day. No matter how hard I try, I have never been able to work this phenomenon out. Perhaps someone can help me? "
I'm not sure what you mean by this.
Otherwise interesting review. Always interesting in hearing other peoples religious beliefs. |
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- 16/04/09 "Jesus, Himself (who is completely one with the Father"- due to my beliefs i dont agree Jesus and God are "one" ie. the same, never made sense to be how that could be but absolutely agree with you on everything else! Marriage is sacred |
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