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Drinking is NOT a game! (Alcoholism in General)

abababbey

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Alcoholism in General

Date: 28/12/01 (154 review reads)
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I have a male friend, who by admission, is an alcoholic. He is thankfully, now going through rehab. Please read this story I am about to write. It is all true, and luckily no one was killed!

My friend ’’C’’, started drinking at age 15, he is now 36 and lucky to be alive.

At age 17 ’’C’’ got his first DUI ticket.(Driving under the influence of alcohol). He was on his way home from a party at a friend's house, where drinking parties were all the rage, every weekend.

He was stopped at a red light and fell asleep!. Thank goodness for some reason, his foot remained on the brake pedal and his car didn’t careen into oncoming traffic. The person in the car behind him alerted the police when ’’C’’ didn’t drive when the light turned green.

He was arrested, spent 3 nights in the lock up, until bail was made, went to court and was fined $250.00 and given 30 days of community service.

At age 19, ’’C’’ was driving his car after a night of partying with his friends again. The drinking bashes were now going on during the week as well as every weekend now. He swerved off the road, the car landed in a ditch after rolling over. This time he was not so lucky. He was badly hurt. Both legs were broken and had to be set with pins, one kidney was smashed and had to be removed and he was hospitalized for 3 months.

Once released from the hospital, he went to court, was sentenced to 90 days this time and given a $500.00 fine.

And time goes on... Once again ’’C’’ is driving under the influence of alcohol, driving irratically and pulled over by a highway patrol officer. He was again on his way home from yet another party. It was now a way of life for him .

He is taken in again to be held over until trial at which time the judge revokes his license for 5 years and he has to spend 30
days in lock up and do 500 hours of community service plus pays a $750.00 fine.

There were 2 more incidents after this one! I can't believe he hasn't learned!!



At last, now at age 36 ’’C’’ has his drivers license back. And I will now tell you how he is staying sober.

’’C’’ joined ’’AA’’ (Alcoholics Anonymous) and goes to meetings regularly. He has also joined a support group, where many people go 2 times a week to just talk about why they drink, the problem that cause them to drink and the many reasons they should not drink. He has also stopped ’’going out with his friends for just a beer to relax’’ after work. He stays out of most places that serve alcoholic beverages(So he is not tempted) and most of all, he thinks of the many things that could have happened to him and other people because of his drinking.

He thinks about what his drinking has done to his family. And his life. He thinks about what he could have done with all the time and money spent on his addiction.

And more than anything else he thinks of all he can accomplish now that he is sober. (’’C’’ has now been sober for almost 1 year, he says he does miss drinking sometimes, but, he cherishes life more)



If you drink to excess, STOP NOW before you have to go through what ’’C’’ has gone through. If you don’t drink,DO NOT START as you’ve read here, it is very hard to quit.

I myself do not drink, and am greatful that ’’C’’, who means as much to me as my family, no longer drinks either.


Before you take that next (or your first) drink at a dorm or frat party, at a friend's house, at a party or club or bar... think of everything that could happen because of it.

Alcohol is a very addictive drug. Addictions can
be treated! Alcoholism is a disease! Diseases can be treated!

Think before you drink. The life you save, may be your own....or mine!!!!

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nonperson

- 29/12/01

hmm well i don't really wanna say this.. and it'll probably come out all wrong and insult loadsa people... but yeah with all the 'shouting' it felt like woah calm down a bit.. a simililar experience to a preacher yelling at me to become christian.. =/
abababbey

- 29/12/01

Thank you all for reading and commenting. The exclamation marks were shouting! I emplore everyone to please control yourself whan it comes to drinking. It IS a strong, addictive drug that can kill. It is no better than heroin or cocaine!

And yes, there are other implications that go along with an alcoholic, such as abuse. Thankfully I have no experience to write about that aspect of it. (Although I feel for those who do)

As for "C". He is the love of my life. And we can now finally have a life together!

Happy Holidays to you all, and thanks for reading and commenting.

&quo t;THINK BEFORE YOU DRINK!"

=) Abbey
chrispitts

- 28/12/01

A really good op, but focussed on the drink/driving aspects rather than other problems related to alcohol. My father in law used to get drunk and hit his children...

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