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It was good for a while...
Member Name: uk1417
Advantages: Some nice people, made some great friends from this site.
Disadvantages: Admin/mods play favorites, if you're not 'in' with her crowd expect to get banned eventually
I was a member for a while and thought it was great but over time I started to notice that all wasn't quite as it seemed. It turned out that the admin/mod team had favorites and certain members were able to say what ever outlandish things they wanted but if someone who wasn't a part of their little group said the same thing they were warned or banned without notice and often with no explanation and no chance to explain yourself. Any attempt at even trying to reconcile or reason with the admin team was either ignored, responded with a very rude and/or hurtful response or it resulted in your account being banned permanently.
They pick and choose which rules apply to which members and I know countless people who have been treated unfairly as a result. The website gives off a very good first impression, it is very large and very active which is great, just what you want in a forum. But upon closer inspection it's plain to see that the Administrator and owner (known as 'Wobbles') is condescending and does not value 'her' members at all. There seems to be a little cult of followers who think the sun shines out of Wobbles' arse and whilst i'm not discounting the hard work this person has put into the website, I do think she has lost site of what the site is all about. It's like the success of baby and bump has gone to her head and she has become like some sort of dictator who doesn't value 'her' members as individuals. I mean let's face it. It doesn't matter if she gets rid of a few members, there will always be more coming into replace them because of the sheer size of the website.
She is very into the whole public humiliation thing and seems to lack compassion which considering the nature of the site, is surprising as many women are at their most vulnerable whilst they are posting on the site (during pregnancy, after giving birth and such) . It worries me that someone like this is allowed to have such a hold over so many women and doesn't seem to care how her actions can affect people because it's her site and what she says goes, which may be true but that certainly doesn't make it right.
I definitely wouldn't recommend this site.