Divorce Getting over it (Children & Divorce)

Member Name: The Man XR2

Product:	Children & Divorce
Date:	25/06/03 (430 review reads)
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Advantages: makes you stonger

Disadvantages: all the hurt

Well divorce is a word you here more and more these day
And I have been there when I was 10 year old my mum and dad spite up and I then I went to live with my dad.

I am 19 now and I steel see and mum and dad but from the age of 10 to 14 I did not see my mum and on the day of my 14 birthday my mum come around but I think at the time I did not want to know, and when I was 17 I started talking to my mum again.

It take me a look time to get over what happed and to started talking to my mum again as when I was a kid my mum use to pick on me and my half bother
So when my mum left my dad she did not want me around so she told my dad to take me with him, so he did,
And it was a good thing as he is my dad and my best friend and I love him to bits he is always there when I need him and I can tell him anything
Well I have had trouble with girls in my life as I have lost my confidence and I have got it back now as I am engaged and thinking of getting married soon.
But I have seen a therapist about what happed to me as I kid but I have got over it all

All in all it has make me so much better as a person and I have so much left to give in everyway but I have be down and out but I am ok now.

With divorce it can make people very sad and that the world is getting on top of them but you can get over it with time.

Divorce is the worst possible thing to happen in the world to your children/child! To some of them it can scar them for life even at a young age lots of emotion goes through the child?s brain and they start to wonder if they have done something wrong to make this divorce happen. To them it feels like the whole world is on the shoulders and it?s not right for them to feel that way.

Children are the most precious and beautiful people a mother and father can bring in to the world but out of 100%, over 70%, get divorced and it?s unfair.
Parents who get divorced can put kids through hell and back; I
know cause I have been there myself. Some parents ask or tell the kids to choose but why should they? If they can?t choose between mum and dad so what happens? Where do they go? Well some go with one of the parents or they go and live with other members of the family.

Some reasons why parents get divorced.

[ THEY HAVE LOST THE LOVE FOR EACH OTHER
[ CHILD ABUSE
[ ADULT ABUSE
[ ARGUMENTS
[ CAN?T BEAR TO LEAVE IN THE SAME HOUSE
[ HATRED
[ RAPE
[ CHEATING

The best thing for parents to do is try and stay with one another because children need their family but some children as they grow older can turn out to be abusive and turn to crime so it?s best to try and respect your self and your children because there is nothing worse then a broken home.

What can happen to children?s parents who get divorced!

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