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Natural Birth |
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23/09/01 (119 review reads) |
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Advantages: Everything to me
Disadvantages: I am a man
Having just been happily delivered of our first born I wanted to give a man's view of his partner's labour. I cannot describe the sensation in the delivery room when your wife is giving birth without using cliches. It was magical, like nothing I have experienced and my wife also agrees. Labour is not pain but a means to an end and the end is beautiful. My wife also now two weeks later is ready for another. She went through 9 months of fear and trepidation and during the labour she surprised herself and at the birth we both wept with joy. I was proud of her she at all times kept her dignity and delivered with some style she laboured for 9 hours and pushed the baby out in half an hour. I am sure many out there have very much worse labours and really do suffer. We however had a normal labour and delivery. Normal means just that "normal". That is the kind of labour that most women have. For all those couples out there who are fearful of the delivery day all I can say is that the ends does justify the means. We are not the only couple who think that. I ask you, if the majority of labours are terrible ordeals, why do most couples forget the experience? They must do or the world would be full of one child families. Best wishes to all of you who are expecting and the journey into parenthood is an exciting and rewarding one for everyone.
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- 25/09/01 Good opinion cabletow. My daughter is now 18 months old.....and it is still wonderful being a mum. I'm ready to do it again. Love Jenxx
P.S. Congratulations on your child. |
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- 24/09/01 I had my first baby 20 months ago. You don't forget the pain - you know it hurt like hell! - but the funny thing is, you can't actually recall what it felt like...I know I will have another child despite the agony I went through. Congrats on the birth of your child - it is so worth it. |
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- 23/09/01 "I ask you, if the majority of labours are terrible ordeals, why do most couples forget the experience?" - no couple, especially the women, ever forgets the expericene. I have friends who have 4 or 5yr olds and still remember the pains around the time of their childrens birthday. However, people have more than one children because they want more and know that the love they have for their children is greater than the pain they have to go through.........and trust me some women go through a LOT of pain. Gwen |
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