WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME? (Preparing for Birth)

Member Name: pauline1900

Product:	Preparing for Birth
Date:	25/10/00 (28 review reads)
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Advantages: TO BE SURE I GUESS

Disadvantages: WAITING TOO LONG AND MISSING OUT

I have been in conversation time and time again when someone will say I don't want children yet, I can't afford it. Can any of us?

You could take years to decide when the right time is and that is good if you want to make sure that you are ready for parenthood. But as for waiting until you can afford it I think you could wait forever.

Year after year people say next year then I will have finished the house or gone on that holiday or bought that car, if you are waiting to have money then forget it.

I didn't get my house first or car or holidays to be honest I wasn't even married. But saying that I now have a house and car been on holidays and is even off to Florida. I got married and we had another child as well, and no we couldn't afford it really either.

The difference is that my children will never know that they will hopefully be happy and love me the way I love them. All children need is loving parents a stable home is needed but it doesn't have to be full of IKEA or top quality carpets etc. All it needs to be full of is love and that is PRICELESS and FREE.

I don't wish to call those people who want to wait over but I don't think money is the B all and End all of it. If those of you out there have children will already know they are worth more than anything in the world, and I would give my life up for mine. Money I would give away my house and car I would give away, but nobody will ever take my children and if anyone tried then they would have to be PREPARED!!

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