Cocoa and Cuddles (Sex After Giving Birth)

Member Name: DBan

Product:	Sex After Giving Birth
Date:	19/11/01 (239 review reads)
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Advantages: Fun, Expressing affection

Disadvantages: Tiredness, Expectations

Believe me thats all you'll manage for the first few weeks, months maybe. Three in the bed is not sexual adventure, it's a desperate attempt at sleep, with a fidgiting little one in the middle, constantly demanding milk. Which either means leaking breasts or trips to the kitchen.

However you do reach a point where little one sleep through. You can't all be as unlucky as we have been and not have that on a regular basis until well into the second year.

This is when you slip on the sexy nighty, dab the perfume behind your ears, and catch up on all that sex you've been missing..... OK woooh fellas reality check. This is when you catch up on sleep. Sex after a baby changes, not necessarily for the worse. But don't expect fireworks.

What is important is to establish a feeling of closeness. She isn't going to have the pre-pregnancy figure. He hasn't been numero uno in her life since junior was born.

I'm not saying that sex can't be fun, but it needs to be part of an expression of love for each other that extends outside the bedroom.

Good sex is more likely to happen after birth if the couple are still communicating as two people who love each other, not just two worn out parents.

There will be times when sex is a consession, so fellas do show appreciation of your woman's generosity, when the probability is that all she wants is to craw under the duvet for a week with out being woken.

To return to great sex takes patience, understanding, and a cooperative baby or very understanding friends or relations willing to take baby for a long walk while you catch up on some ..er... "sleep".

Believe me, the days of good sex will return. After all the kids do leave home some day.

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